boy, was I wrong

17 Aug

I’ ll let you in on a little secret.

Here it goes.

Having a third kid is actually pretty awesome. Yeap, I never thought I would say these words, but it seriously ROCKS. I am so grateful and thankful for the little guy outside that I can not believe I actually felt that insecure and so horribly helpless a little less than a year ago.

How could we live without him? We have been asking ourselves that question more often than we would like to admit. The simple truth is we couldn’t have known. We were too busy planning our life with two kids that we didn’t even let ourselves consider adding one more to the bunch. The irony of it all is that we would have never taken the decision ourselves. We had flirted with the idea a couple of times in the past but we always chickened out.

And then I got pregnant. With an IUD in place. I still can’t believe it.

It’s not easy of course and I have no intent of sugar coating the whole thing. The decision to have another child is one of the most crucial decisions you might have to take in life and if certain circumstances stand in the way then by all means having another child might have detrimental effects on everyone.

But if you do decide to go down that road, know this: you will be rewarded. In all sorts of ways. Some days will be tough and most nights will be sleepless but you will get the first glance, the first smile, the first everything. All. Over. Again. And this my friends, is priceless.

Until next time

love

t

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5 Responses to “boy, was I wrong”

  1. Elina Zambounis August 18, 2014 at 1:29 am #

    It might sound a little cliche on my side, but I’ll say it once again… THAT’S MY GIRL!!!!

  2. ramblingsfromamum August 18, 2014 at 1:32 am #

    How your life has changed for the better and I am so so happy for all of you. What a darling he is and you are right how could you ever think you could live without this bundle of love. Thank you for sharing his photo and telling us how happy you are T. xxxx

  3. meditatingmummy August 18, 2014 at 6:05 pm #

    Oh Tatu, he is precious. You are a fantastic mama and yes, life is infinitely better with this beautiful being in it. What a perfect addition. So happy for you my friend. Sending you love.
    xxx

    • wonderlandbytatu September 12, 2014 at 9:01 am #

      thank you so much. Your kind words mean so much to me. I hope you are well. Once things get a bit more settled I will try to make more time for my blogger friends. Thinking of you, xxx

      • meditatingmummy September 15, 2014 at 12:26 am #

        Take your time lovely girl. You have much to do. We will chat soon.
        xxx

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